Redefining The Word “Forever”

April 22nd 2016

Story originally written and experienced: February 4th 2013

Forever.

It’s a freaky word.

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A word some people steer clear of, while others can’t get enough.

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No commitment issues here…

It was a Monday.

February 3, 2013, and I found myself sitting on the cushy couch in my living room, pen in hand, polka dot robe wrapped around my body and thinking about this idea of “forever” and thinking about it a lot.

Only because.

It seemed like a lot of my friends, family and co-workers were committing to many things these days—like marriage, moves and other monumental decisions.

And most seemed to be pretty pumped about it.

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While others.

Were really freaked out.

“Is this permanent?”

“Is this right?”

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And after talking to them all, I gathered a lot of things.

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Just doing some research.

And then I wrote this:

To some people, forever means “commitment, the end of unpredictability, the extinction of change and a heavy a pressure to maintain it all.”

And to others:

“A promise, security, infinity, an achievement…even a relief.”

Both super intense definitions.

That don’t really have to be.

Because.

What if we changed the way we looked at the word “forever”?

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Moved                away from the Merriam-Webster dictionary definition of:

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And changed it from an adverb to an action.

Stop directly applying that concrete concept to such a dicey things like love and a job, and apply it to more habit-based commitments that will take you to damn good places with damn good people if you can commit to keeping up with them—forever—instead.

“I’ll surround myself with people I like a whole hell of a lot—forever.”

“I’ll stick to hobbies that I find fantastic—forever.”

“I’ll never sell myself short—forever.”

“I’ll be there for everyone I give a damn about—forever.”

So that way.

No matter your age, circumstance, or decision, you have a foundation of reliable forevers—long-lasting relationships, a hobby that has always put a smile on your face and a series of promises achieved to give yourself the best that will pull through for you in times that feel uneasy, unsure or just incredibly new.

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And I feel like if we can define it that way? It will feel like a lot less like a pressure, and more of a definitive promise to put what keeps you afloat and feeling good—first and foremost—forever.

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